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Buy, Borrow, Die: The Wealth Strategy Cheat Sheet

The 3‑step framework wealthy families use to access cash without creating taxable income, mapped to every income level so you can see exactly where you fit.

  • How to borrow against assets you already own instead of selling them
  • Why borrowed funds are generally not taxable income, and the rules that keep it that way
  • Step‑up in basis: how decades of unrealized gains can be eliminated at transfer
  • Income‑level breakdown so you know what applies to you

Inside the cheat sheet

1

Buy

Which assets qualify and what you probably already own

2

Borrow

How borrowed funds can provide cash without creating taxable income

3

Die

The step‑up in basis that can eliminate decades of unrealized gains

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Who this is for

If any of these sound like you, the cheat sheet will click immediately.

Business owners ($1M–$10M)

You own property, equipment, or a growing business, and most ways of pulling cash out create a tax bill.

Real estate investors

You have equity sitting in properties but keep selling to access it, losing chunks to capital gains and recapture.

High‑income professionals

Physicians, attorneys, and executives with investment accounts and no strategy for accessing wealth tax‑efficiently.

The 3 steps, simplified

Buy, Borrow, Die isn't complicated. It's just never been explained to you in plain English.

01

Buy

  • Own assets that appreciate over time
  • Commercial property, rentals, your business, brokerage accounts
  • Stop selling every time you need cash
02

Borrow

  • Use assets as collateral for a line of credit
  • Borrowed money is generally not taxable income
  • The asset keeps compounding while you use the cash
03

Die (the step‑up)

  • Assets receive a stepped‑up basis at death
  • Decades of unrealized gains can be eliminated under current law
  • Heirs inherit at current market value, legally

How this was prepared

Prepared from primary sources

Educational tax content prepared by HavenStone Advisory, a CPA-led firm, and grounded in the primary sources listed here. It is not individualized tax, legal, accounting, investment, or financial advice. Rules can change, and your facts matter, so confirm decisions with your CPA, attorney, or tax advisor before acting.

Prepared by HavenStone Advisory

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Primary references

Review standard

  • Primary-source references checked where rule-specific claims are made.
  • Article scope limited to educational information unless a client engagement exists.
  • Time-sensitive tax rules labeled with published, updated, or reviewed dates.

Frequently asked

Quick answers about the cheat sheet, the strategy, and how to use it.

Yes. We built this so owners can see how the framework applies at their level. If you want help implementing it, you can book a call, but the cheat sheet stands on its own.
No. We'll send the cheat sheet and occasional useful content. You can opt out anytime with one click.
No. If you own a business, real estate, or investment accounts, the framework applies. The cheat sheet maps it to multiple income levels.
Yes. Buy, Borrow, Die uses provisions built into the tax code: borrowed funds are generally not treated as income, and the step-up in basis at death is codified law under current rules. Always coordinate with your CPA and attorney.
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